A private, sex-positive space to learn, connect, and overshare safely.
Lovers By Shan
Lovers By Shan is a premium community for people who treat love as a life practice, not a side quest. Members learn through candid conversations, guided education, and experiences designed to build real intimacy skills. The tone is warm, direct, and judgment-free—because the best growth happens when you feel safe being real.
Inside, you’ll engage with a blend of live sessions, deep-dive workshops, and ongoing discussion that turns insight into action. Shan’s approach combines practical tools with honest reflection, so you can understand patterns, make clearer choices, and communicate with more confidence. You’ll leave each interaction with something to try, revisit, or practice in your relationships right away.
Outcomes
- Communicate needs with clarity
- Build healthier relationship patterns
- Deepen intimacy and confidence
- Join honest, sex-positive dialogue
What's included?
Monthly Q&As
Bring your questions and get direct, candid guidance from Shan in live Q&A sessions designed to make advice practical, personal, and immediately usable.
Live classes & workshops
Join interactive sessions that deep-dive into intimacy, dating, and relationship skills, pairing education with exercises that turn insight into behavior change.
Resources library
Explore member resources you can revisit anytime, including curated materials that support learning, reflection, and healthier choices in love and connection.
Exclusive podcast access
Listen to members-only podcast content and join a more two-way relationship with Shan through conversations you won’t find on public feeds.
Who is this for?
- Curious learners who want sex positive education
- People who love love and want to be better at it
- Members seeking a safe space to hold nuanced and complex reflections around intimacy and relationships
About the creator
Shan Boodram
Certified Sex Educator & Sexologist | Bestselling Author & Podcast Host | Mainstream Media
Hey lover, I’m Shan! I’m a certified sex educator (AASECT), a sexologist (American Board of Sexology), and I’ve got a Master’s in psychology. I'm best known as the teacher on Netflix’s Too Hot to Handle, as the host of the podcast Lovers by Shan (for...
