Happy Girl Club
Online community for women to make friends, chat by city, and meet up in person

Making friends as an adult is hard, especially after moving cities or when schedules fill up. Happy Girl Club Community is an online space for women who want friendships that keep going after the event ends. Whether you want a coffee buddy, a pen pal, or a group of women who get it, there is room for you.
The community is built to continue the conversations that start at Happy Girl Club events. Members chat in city groups, join virtual gatherings, and turn online conversations into real-life friendships. It is open to women wherever they live, and you do not need to know anyone before joining. Introducing yourself is a fine place to start.
Outcomes
- Make friends as an adult, even in a new city
- Turn online chats into real-life friendships
- Find a coffee buddy, pen pal, or girl group
- Feel less shy about meeting new people
- Keep friendships going between events
What's included?
City Chatrooms
Connect with girls in San Diego, Los Angeles, Orange County, and Temecula through private city chats, so you can find local friends and keep conversations going between meetups.
Early Access
Get 48-hour early access to Happy Girl Club meetups before tickets open up. Event tickets are purchased separately unless otherwise stated.
Happy Girl Table
Access exclusive, members-only social dinners designed for smaller groups and meaningful conversations. Space is limited, and reservations are first come, first served.
Happy Girl Getaways
Be first to hear about upcoming group trips, with priority access to Happy Girl Getaways.
Local Perks & Offers
Enjoy special offers from participating local businesses. Perks are currently focused on Southern California.
Pen Pals
Opt in to be matched with another Happy Girl to exchange letters and build a friendship. Matches use your interests and preferences and are subject to availability.
Happy Girl Live
Join monthly virtual girls' nights, conversations, and special guests. Open to members wherever they live.
Happy Girl Hotline
Join monthly challenges, ask questions, and connect with other members daily.
Happy Girl Mail
Get a 25% discount on the monthly Happy Girl Post snail-mail subscription.
Who is this for?
- Women who moved to a new city and want to make friends
- Women in San Diego, Los Angeles, Orange County, or Temecula who want a local girl group
- Shy or busy women who want an easy way to meet people before showing up in person
- Women anywhere who want a pen pal or a friendly online group chat
About the creator
Happy Girl Club
A community brand for women built on events, friendship, and snail mail
Happy Girl Club is a community brand for women centered on in-person events, merchandise, and mail. Its events include speed friending, hikes, yoga, book nights, and charity fundraisers. The brand also runs Happy Girl Post, a monthly snail mail subs...