Hey lover, I’m Shan! I’m a certified sex educator (AASECT), a sexologist (American Board of Sexology), and I’ve got a Master’s in psychology. I'm best known as the teacher on Netflix’s Too Hot to Handle, as the host of the podcast Lovers by Shan (formerly Lovers and Friends), or for my class on MasterClass called The Art of Sex Appeal.

The Lovers community is for anyone who wants a life well-loved. It’s a platform made for people who want to learn how to love well, by developing emotional awareness, relational skills, psychological insight, and sexual self-knowledge, and who see being a good lover as a lifelong practice.